Grown-Ups (1980)
“We’re back to normal now, aren’t we?”
Grown Ups is an early Mike Leigh made-for-television film. Director Leigh has a special talent for creating British working class characters, and in this film the subjects are Mandy (Lesley Manville) and Dick (Philip Davis), a young newlywed couple. Mandy and Dick move into their new home–a tatty council house–and the move is an ‘arrival’ in more ways than one. Now that they have a council house, Mandy feels that they are ready to start a family, but Dick doesn’t want to take that step yet. Their tatty council house is right next door to the perfectly maintained private home of a former teacher, Mr. Butcher and his wife, fellow teacher Christine. It’s a unpleasant shock for Mr. Butcher to have his former pupils living right next door, and he’d rather have nothing at all to do with the new neighbours.
Grown Ups is a portrait of two marriages, and neither couple is destined for much happiness. Dick is sullen, resentful, and unpleasant. He clings to old-fashioned notions rather desperately, and he would be a pitiful character if he weren’t so utterly unappealing. Mandy’s annoying sister, Gloria, won’t leave the couple alone. She finds every excuse to pester Dick and Mandy and is constantly ‘dropping in’. The Butchers’ marriage isn’t much happier. Mr. Butcher has some rather annoying habits, and it takes the patience of a saint to suffer through every day life with him. Christine, apparently, does have that much patience. She’s long-suffering, undemanding, and self-contained, and all those qualities result in her being ignored at times and taken for granted at others. But at least Mr. Butcher’s self-righteous pomposity is more benign than Dick’s brutal and crude approaches to domestic tranquility.
All of the performances are perfect. Brenda Blethyn, who plays Mandy’s loony spinster sister, Gloria, is a wonderful comedienne. In Grown Ups, she’s neurotic, deranged, and needy. Some of her screechy speeches tend to grate after a while, and one longs to eject Gloria oneself … permanently. As with other Mike Leigh films, the characters are not pleasant, and they are sometimes painful to watch. While touted as a comedy film, the style of humor is uniquely Mike Leigh’s, and that means it’s black, bleak, pessimistic humor. If you are a fan of Mike Leigh films, then I would recommend Grown-Ups. Non-British viewers may find some of the accents difficult to understand, and they may also bored by the film as it emphasizes and skewers British class differences.
